Recently at a formal event I found myself seated at a table for eight with seven folks I’d never met before. Aside from two couples at the table, most of us did not know our dinner neighbors. So for ten minutes we leaned across the table and shouted our names loud enough to be heard over the music and we played the culturally-accepted practice of Do-you-know-so-and-so? One couple shared that they just had a baby and were still unpacking from a recent move to Athens. They asked me (remember that we were close to shouting to be heard), “Is there a church in Athens that you recommend?” I used the back of a business card to jot down the names of some Disciples churches and pastors in the area, and then asked (bellowed), “Where did you move from?” “We moved from Decatur!” “Oh, my church is in Decatur!” “We lived on Northern Avenue!” “Oh,” I said, “that is across the street from First Christian Church!” They responded (hollered), “You know, we were looking for a church when we lived there, but we never thought to visit you. Now we wish that we had!”
My friends, here are a couple thoughts I’ve gleaned from that conversation (shouting match). I’d love to hear your insights. No need to yell; just write or call or drop by for a (quiet) chat.
1. We have neighbors across the street and across the city who hunger for community. Families want a faith-based community in which to raise their children and to be fed and sustained. We as the Body of Christ are hereby challenged to do better to reach outside of ourselves in order to create and foster relationships. Remember that faith is relational. How hard can it be to walk ten steps and invite a neighbor in? The worst that can happen is your neighbor says no. However, imagine the best, and you may discover a new hope.
2. Neighbors, you have access to a vibrant, affirming, and hospitable faith community. Within easy reach of your doorsteps, fingertips, and wheels is a loving, service-oriented congregation whose folks would like nothing better than to simply get to know your name and needs, and see where the Spirit of all that is Good and Just leads us. You would be — and already are — welcome just as you are. Please know that we are life-giving, permission-giving, and forgiving. Some folks find visiting a new church a scary experience. I can relate. What is the worst that can happen? You waste an hour and learn a lesson. However, imagine the best, and you may discover a new home.
Think about inviting your neighbor; consider visiting this neighborly church. I wish you would.
As always, First Christian Church of Decatur, I am delighted to be your pastor. Shalom, James L. Brewer-Calvert